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Your Reality Is Wrong

January 19th, 2007

.. the process which allows us to accomplish the most extraordinary and unique human activities are the same processes which block our further growth if we commit the error of mistaking the model for the reality.

The Structure of Magic, Richard Bandler & John Grinder.

Your Reality Is Wrong

We all have models of reality that we construct over time from our experiences. We use our model as the basis for every single decision we make for our entire life! Yet, our experiences are inherently biased! Therefore we look at life from a skewed perspective. What does this mean? I’m not “qualified” in this area, but I have spent most of my life thinking about this sort of stuff. Here’s some things you may like to keep in mind, and why I think it’s worth doing so.

  1. We see reality through a filter. Therefore always remain weary of what you see.
  2. You can’t remove the filter, but you can reduce the effects of the filter by experiencing more.
  3. Our model forms part of an organic feedback loop. Accept that your model is inherently flawed to improve the feedback process.
  4. A biased model is an incorrect model, and an incorrect model means you will make mistakes. Mistakes are a natural means of correcting your model, so don’t get down over it.

There’s plenty more that could be said about this but I’ll leave it as thought fodder for the next time you brush your teeth :)

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